It is not so much about a selfish love—one which requires the attention of others.
It is more about an alacrity to see the me in a desired place—with a happiness on face.
Oh, one can brabble about whether or not it can even be of the selfless kind.
But, as long as Vertumnus keeps peddling growth and change, a memory-moment recorded can help one remember—then, perhaps, better.
The key is to see loves given and return that inward, passing on any misjudged view and, instead, finding charm in every adorkable you.
Love selfie. ; )